In your life you come across so many people, some are strangers, some of them become friends and some more than that. So you categorize people and set up a process of thinking. For some you might think from your mind(professionally), for some you might think from your heart and some even with yourself... LOVE and FRIENDSHIP are two such terms which people often trust them easily and also loose trust in them easily. If you meet a stranger more than 2-3 times. you wll call him or her your friend and after 10-12 meeting maybe your lover.....There are people in this world who trust people fast and tend to loose their trust and faith n them as fast as they tend to fall for them. So one thing you should always keep in mind... fall slowly, understand slowly and then you will rise and shine in their love or friendship. Though, I used Love and Friendship at the same time that doesn't mean that they are synonyms. They both are two different terms. For every individual, its meaning is different but for me they both requires faith, believe and trust. There is a very thin lne between love and friendship, which needs to be maintained strictly.
Sometimes loosing a love is easy to deal rather loosing your friends. For Love you think from your heart, you care from your heat and you make emotional mistakes from heart, and you don't think....I think that is the reason why it is said so that LOVE IS BLIND and it will surely turn you deaf and dumb....For friendship you think from your heart and you take decisions from your mind keeping in mind the emotional status of your heart....So if you loose a friend it is hard to forget on the other hand loosing a lover is just an emotional imbalance one goes through. n this, there is another category of people who are called FRIENDLY LOVERS who at initial stage are friends, then lover and at last you tend to loose your friend as well as your lover. So it is wise to make certain boundaries or limitations in your heart and mind on who is who..... whether he/she is your friend or your lover?
"Love is a sweetest feeling n anyone's life friendship make every feeling sweet... but never destroy your friendship because of your love" --- Quoted by a friend
"Love is unconditional and friendship never minds conditions"---Quoted by a friend
We were given: Two hands to hold. Two legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find.
ReplyDeleteThanx Aamir... :)
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